The simple and easy answer is there is more than one kind of butch lesbian.
Hell the person you saw in the bar may not even identify as butch. You really can't judge a book by it's cover.
For some being a butch has to do with how they are in bed. For others it is more how they present themselves to the world or how they feel on the inside.
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You might look at someone as say, "She's butch" based on how she looks, but she might not identify that way at all. Others only like to date other butches.
Some don't have a preference one way or another. So I can understand why you would be confused.
So instead of making a snap judgment suolseeking someone based on her looks, why don't you go introduce yourself and get to know her better. I've never been with a woman who didn't like to touch. I recently saw a woman dressed in a "man's suit" and she looked good.
I'm not used to seeing that here. If I see her again, I want to say hello.
But I wasn't sure if all butch women had bedroom restrictions I'm not exactly a femme lesbian, so maybe a butch lesbian wouldn't be interested in me anyway. Butch Primer: Do butches only date femmes? Continue Reading.